My husband and I had a very beautiful and healthy marriage. He loved me and put me first. His family hated me so much and tried everything to break us up.
They hated me because they had a woman they wanted him to marry, a woman from his past and I on the other hand was a woman who they didn't know nor liked.
I tried many times to break up with him but he refused. I didn't like how they treated me and my children. They treated my children like they weren't their grandchildren. I then decided to stay away from them and only my husband would go visit them and my kids and I would stay behind.
My husband also refused to visit them until they accepted me. One day his sister's husband passed away and they called him. He didn't want to go and I begged him to go because he was close with the man and the man did nothing wrong to him.
He went to the funeral and came back a different man ever since. He was aggressive towards me, changed room and didn't want to touch me and nothing I did was right in his eyes. Whenever he would force himself to be intimate with me I would bleed badly.
Seeing that my marriage was falling apart I went to church and they restored my marriage, apparently my husband was fed muti that made him hate me.
Soon as they realised that he was no longer coming home they went back to the drawing board I guess. His family had taken in the woman they wanted for him. During their meet ups behind my back the woman fell pregnant.
The woman and my husband's aunt came to my house while I was sleeping and drew a cross at my gate. They then put a picture of me and my husband on the cross and burned it.
When it burned they took the ashes and left. The woman then added the ash to my husband's food and called his name out there times. My husband then left our house to his mother's house and he has since never returned.
I heard from people in the street that he was now married and living with another woman, the very same woman who broke us up. I was also bleeding endlessly. Been on my periods for almost two years and the clinic nor Doctors could help.
Only my church helped. I kept praying for my husband even though he had abondeoned us. One day I was just at home chilling and I saw his wife walking in. I was so shocked and scared because I know the things she's done to me and my marriage.
She had bruises all over her face and body. She told me everything that she did and who made her do them and how everything was done.
Now she says she no longer wants the marriage because our husband has turned into a monster who gets jealous over everything. He is now a Control freak and beats her up over everything.
She was in my house begging me to forgive her because she was told by a Sangoma that she is in this situation because of my tears. I chased her out but I have forgiven her. She even said that my ex husband who divorced me for no reason now abuses his entire family too.
My kids and I are fine without them. We do not need him or them. They keep sending people to come apologize on their behalf but I truly am not interested. I've went through the darkest moments because of them.
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