I hear people warning each other about friends and extended families. But I am here to vent about my mom and sister. Yes the woman who gave birth to be has been trying to get rid of my baby, her own grandchild.
It all started when I was young but I always thought that maybe it's because I am younger and my big sister is older that my mom wants only the best for her when coming to dating.
I have always been a bright child and I was an indoor child. My sister was my mom's first born and it took my mom years to be able to conceive so I made excuses for their bond. we have different fathers, my sister's father passed away while mine just went awol.
Anyway so I met this guy, we started dating and it became serious. He wanted to pay lobola but my mother refused. She told me that she had consulted and she was told that the guy is from a very dangerous family, basically she said he is from a family of witchcraft.
She said before I could marry him I needed to go get cleansed so that they won't be able to perform their witchcraft on me. I told her I was already pregnant. She said that's the more reason why I needed to do the cleansing.
She was my mom and I trusted her, my boyfriend was filthy rich so I was made to believe that it's witchcraft related. I went and the Sangoma told me the exact thing mother did. I was given mutis.
I drank one and after a couple of days I had a miscarriage before I had the miscarriage I had the miscarriage I gave my boyfriend some scones from my mom. When I had the miscarriage he started accusing me of being responsible for the miscarriage.
He told me that my mom and sister told him everything. When I confronted them they denied but I later learned that my sister was pregnant. My boyfriend kept frequenting my home whenever I wasn't around.
My sister gave birth and everything was fine, when her baby was two years old, she fell pregnant again. This time her baby daddy's family came to pay lobola. I was shocked when it was my ex's family.
All this time my mom and sister made me believe the babies were that of her long lost boyfriend meanwhile it was my ex's babies. The ex that just ditched me without any explanation.
I've never said anything, I just moved out to go stay with my dad and step mom who took me to a traditional healer who revealed how they stole my luck and gave it to my sister, how they even fed my ex a love portion through me.
I was cleansed and still picking up the pieces and the pain of being back stabbed by people I'd take a bullet for. My mom has done a number on me.
I didn't ask I just kept quiet. He then blocked my number and I was never able to gey
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