HOW TO MAKE YOUR MAN PAY LOBOLA FOR YOU

 There is nothing more stressful than dating a man who clearly affords to pay lobola but will never even make it a part of your conversations. Or if he does make it a part of your conversations he's always slacking when it is time for action. 

Here i am talking to a man who's truly yours, not someone you are trying to win from another woman. If you win a man from another woman then embrace yourself because you've just won yourself endless troubles. It should be a long term relationship, a relationship that's atleast over 5 years and above. 

You need to first communicate with your ancestors. Then get him to introduce you to his ancestors. Here's how you introduce yourself to his ancestors. Go to his mother's house, sl@ughter a chicken, when the bl**d is coming out of the chicken then you introduce yourself to them. Cook the chicken for the family and indulge. 

You can't wish to get married to a man whom you are not welcome into his mother's house. If you are not then fix that first. A makoti remains humble to the mother of her man no matter the situation. 

Then you cleanse your place of residency. Your home that you share with him and yard. Make sure you get rid of all the bad enegies and spirits because they too cause slacking in this kind of matters. 

In the bedroom that you share, bath in a scoutel. Mix two eggs, condense milk, fresh milk(ultramel),and sea salt and river water. Use his worn underwe@r to bath with. While bathing make sure you have lit mixed colour candles around the scoutel.

Call out his name and surname and command him to marry you until you finish bathing. Dont put off the candles. Let them burn until they finish. When done bathing sprinkle your bath water around your yard. That will also chase away any bad energy that's against your love and slacking your progress as a couple.

Remember to do this at night. This will also open doors that have been closed by dark things. If he's not the one for you this will also reveal that to you and you will be shown the one meant for you.

Thokozani bo GOGO.