I have always been insecure about my self as a child. I never believed that i am beautiful enough. So when a guy approached me i would hold on to the relationship with my dear life.
I was smart at school so boys only used me to do their school work. They would just flirt with me and play me for a fool whilst they know it's only school work they wanted. I got used to it in high school and my grandmother told me to wait till I'm in varsity then she will set an example with the first guy that tries to take advantage of me.
Varsity came and on my final year this popular guy who was every girl's crush approached me. He asked me to help him with some research we had to do. He was all lovey dovey but i could see his friends holding back their laughs.
A memory from a distant past came rushing. That very same weekend i traveled home. I explained everything to my grandmother and she put stuff in my lotion and some liquid in my tooth paste.
She asked for his picture. I had to go download his facebook profile picture and give it to her. I wrote his names and surname at the back of the picture. My grandma couldn't read nor write so i had to write.
I was instructed to put on the lotion and brush my teeth and not to talk to anyone besides him first. Then take his research and put it inside my underwe@r drawer before giving it back to him.
I went and did exactly that. Lucky for me i didn't have a lot of friends at school i was a loner. I wasn't cool enough to have friends according to my physical appearance. I had one friend whom i ignored so much that day rushing to the guy with his paper in my hand.
He didn't even say thanks, he took it and ran after some girl he must have liked. I felt like crying but i held myself together. Then i called my grandmother. She asked me to run back to my room and stay naked. She said she had put cow dung in my bag in a plastic bag.
She said i must take that cow dang and put it on the floor, next to it should be a pic of the guy even if it's on the phone and blow air at the cow dung calling the guys name until i feel dizzy.
She said i should call her before i start and i rushed back and did exactly that. Then she saud she will also be dealing with him on the other side. Fine, she got down to it and so did it.
I got dizzy and i passed out. The guy ignore me for about two weeks and after that he stopped coming to school. I heard from people that he soiled on himself twice at school now he is embarassed to come back to school.
I called my grandmother and she said good. Now you can call him and you will spon be the only person he is not embarassed to hang with then he will be yours. Everytime he is with me he would be fine.
When he tries to act cool again and act like I'm not good enough for him he would mess on his cool self. Eventualy he realised he needs me because I'd give him a glass of water and lie to him and say it's from my church and he would drink it and be fine until he decides I'm no longer of use.
What he didn't know was that it was just pure water and he didn't even need it. All he needed was to have me in his life and he would be fine. We are now engaged with two kids and we are doing very well.
He still soils on himself if he tries to play me. My grandmother just wanted me to be happy. I was tired of being used so i have no regrets.
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