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A WELL KNOWN GOBELA TURNS MALE INITIATES GAY AND SL€€PS WITH THEM


A WELL KNOWN GOBELA TURNS STRAIGHT MEN GAY AND SL€€PS WITH THEM 

GOOD DAY MAMAZALA PLEASE HIDE MY NAME.

I am writing this email to you with a very broken heart. My once happy marriage has been broken and it is partly my fault. My husband and i were one of those young, happy and goal driven couples that many adored in my village. 

We both left to Gauteng to further our studies and after completing our studies we went back to our village to pursue our careers. I became the very first young teacher at our village at just age 22. He also became a young teacher at 23.

Our village has never produced teachers so we were the very first teachers to ever been produced. Teachers in our schools came from different walks of life. He paid lobola for me at age 25 and we got a stand in the village and we built a very big house.

We were our village's light and hope, our village was one of those after matric you are done with school.  If you are a girl you go live at your boyfriend's place no lobola needed and if you are a guy you look for a job at inidian hardwares or supermarket then you were considered successful. 

We changed the game and we were adored and praised by many. Once we were done building we bought cars then we had twins at age 28. I was so happy to have been so blessed and highly favoured. But then my husband started getting sick oftenly. Doctors couldn't diagnose him but he was in and out of hopsitals frequently. 

One day a well known Gobela in our village came to our house and gave me muti tp boil for my husband. He told me that it will make him better and stronger temporarily but he does have a permanent solution should we ever consider it. I did as he said then my husband drank it and the next day he was very fine.

Back to his old self, no complains about body pains and headache. I was delighted and so was he. I went to thank the Gobela and he reminded me that it was only temporary and we he needed to consult to permanently be free from the curse. The gobela then said that for a permanent healing he needed to stay at his house for 7 days.

We were desperate for a permanent solution because we had a lifetime vision board. We planned that in our 20's we will make sure we build and buy cars and start a business. Which we successfuly did. We started a business of producing Polish.

We had a very successful business of making wax floor polish. Many homes in our village used wax floor polish because only a very few houses had tiled their floors. Anyway we agreed that in our 30s we would start traveling and exploring the world. But his sickness was not helping. 

We arranged with the Gobela that he would go to his house to spend the 7days during school holidays. So school holidays came and he immediately decided he was going there because he wants to spend the rest of the holidays with his family. I drove him there and dropped him off.

7days passed and i went to fetch my husband and i found him sicker. I was told not to come until the 7days passed so we had no communication whatsoever just waking up and hoping for the best. The gobela then explained that the curse was deeper than they thought so the process of taking it out will take longer. 

I cried seeing my husband so sick, he couldn't even sit up nor talk. When i cried i saw tears coming out from his eyes too. Weeks passed and schools were almost about to open and the gobela told me that he was getting better and i could see that he truly was. He could now sit uo and smile. But i was shockef when i was told that his ancestors are also part of the problem.

The gobela told me that they were punishing him because he was ignoring his calling. The shock of my life.  But because we were desperate for his well being i asked that they start the process. After a while my husband was well and he was back at work but he wasn't back at home.

He apparently needed to live at the Gobela house until he was done with his initiation. With time passing by and he had now just entered his 30s. I started noticing a change in his behaviour. He wasn't now as affectionate as he used to be. Like he was someone who preffered just spending time with his kids and less time with me.

But i just assumed that because the process required him to be celibate maybe that is why he is behaving the way that he is, he was avoiding me to prevent temptations. But one thing i noticed was the glow up when he spoke about his Gobela. There was always this spark and blush whenever he mentioned him.

He continued living there and i could see that he had no plans of moving back home. I then decided to confront him about his change of behaviour. He was something else. I had noticed that he behaved very feminine and was always sp weird around male colleagues , like he couldn't relate to them at all.

And he was very comfortable around female colleagues including me. He treated me more like his sister friend than his spouse. So i confronted him about his sexuality and he was so relieved. He told me that he had been hoping that i would notice because he didn't know where to start the conversation. 

My husband told me that he was gay and dating his gobela. He further asked for a divorce. I was and still am shattered and shocked. How could i have never noticed this? 

I am here to ask anyone if they know of the possibility of a gobela being able tp brainwash and change someone's se*uality? A part of me believes that the gobela made my husband sickly in the first place, it was all a part of his plan.

How do i save my marriage? My mother advised me not to consult any traditional healer because many and different muthi on one person can result into mental illness.