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VIDEO: NIGERIAN MAN THREATEN SOUTH AFRICAN WOMAN ABOUT USING MUTI ON HER

 I am a woman who had very bad experiences with men from South Africa. I have 4 children with different men all South African.  After my fourth child i knew it was time to leave South African men alone. Well i actualy wanted to leave men alone all men.

But it got lonely as time passed and i ended up dating some Nigerian man. It lasted 7 months and i left because i realised that everything around him involved muti. There were muti hidden everywhere in his house. There were also weird things happening in that house. 

Sometimes i would be home alone and I'd swear i saw him come home and we chilled, ate and all that until it even got late that we went to bed. But while I'm in bed sleeping he would wake me up saying he's home. And i swear that wasn't a dream. It was as if there is two of them. 

What made me believe that there could be two of them was the fact that the other one was extremely sweet, loving, romantic and patient while the other one was the exact opposite. But it was like i was living in confusion njena so i don't know why but it never really bothered me much. 

I would think about it but i was ignorant somehow. So this other day i heard him speaking weirdly in his language and it was the middle of the night so i walked to where his voice led me. When i got there i saw 5 of them. 

The same man five times. I don't know if i am making sense but 5 replicas. They were all kneeling wearing red doek as bottoms and white vests. They all turned around to look at me and called my name the very same time. I was scared but i couldn't run so i just stood there shocked. They told me to walk inside the and join them. 

The room had no furniture anymore it was just a blacj refusal bag plugged on the wall and a mirror next to it. I walked towards them and i felr my head getting lighter and lighter and i think i fainted becaue the next thing i woke up in bed and he was gone. First thing i did was to go see if the room was really empty and everything was there. The furniture was back, i thought i was dreaming until i saw the mirror and refusal bag and red doeks behind the door.

I quickly closed the door and as i turned around he was standing behind me. He smiled and said are you ready for our date? I had no idea what he was talking about but he said quickly bath lets go we don't want to be late. I bathed then we went to home affairs and guess what? We got married and he got his citizenship. 

My brain and mouth were not working together. There were questions in my head but my mouth refused to ask or even have an opinion on anything at all. It was like i had become his puppet. Everything he said went. I allowed him to even make so many fraudulent acts in my name. I did so many unimaginable things that i could see are wrong but had no power to refuse.

My mom luckily could see that something was wrong with me because i was no longer visiting home and i had abandoned my kids with her. She faked her own illness and i rushed home. There was a sangoma waiting for me there and i did so many cleansinh rituals and vomited all night. 

I vomited till my whole body was numb. After that i remembered everything that happened that side and didn't make sense to me. I never went back to that house and i am now going back and forth with my "husband" on divorce. He refuses to sign divorce papers and says he will sign them in his cof*fin.

He calls just to threaten me about muti and witchcraft and giving me endless warnings. I no longer walk freely in my home country because i am scared of him and what he is capable of.  I came accross a video a couple of months ago of a woman being threatened by her Nigerian man and i totally relate.

I saw South Africans mocking her and saying all sort of painful things but they say so because they are not affected and have never went through the dark cloud and i pray they never experience it.